Update!!!

Sorry for my silence but here is an update on my family!
I got in contact with my brother and he was having troubles getting hold of my father.
The fires that were close to my Aunty missed her town and headed for my fathers, some houses on the edge of the town were lost but the neighbourhood of my father was ok, thank goodness.
The fires near my brother is still burning and with all the fire breakers in place and the direction of the wind they will not come closer to him.
I miss my family dearly and these 2009 fires have made me even more determined to get things in order and travel home next year.

Holding down as many jobs as I am I do not know what else I can do to get the extra cash flow needed (I say that but you know I am hatching a plan ;-) Mind you the funds are only a small amount of the problem, the biggest problem is the ex, though it seems he is taking care of himself, when I say taking care of himself I mean he is digging his own grave and I am just waiting to see how deep he digs, gosh I love it when the good old saying "what goes around comes are" actually does "come around!"

Ok final words! Family is safe! I am over the moon and stressing a lot less so may as well go cover them grey hairs I got over the last days!